I knew from the second I met Afton, that I needed her in my life. When I met Bobby, it wasn’t love at first sight or even second or third sight.
Bobby – Love, at first sight, isn’t common in most people’s lives, though when I joined Keller Williams there was something special about this one they called “Afton” … Her energy, work ethic, personality, and smile that I’d see each day, I fell in love without a second thought. Now, with all great love stories they don’t always add up perfectly and that was exactly the case for this one. Afton hated me!!! Why?!??! How?!?! When?!?! Hate is a strong word, yet she was NOT a fan. At times I can be considered the class clown or the ultimate bachelor, and for Afton (a very studious, successful businesswoman and Realtor), she wanted nothing to do with me!! I would ask myself “How?!?! Why?!?!”
After 8 months of consistent follow-up, drip emails, mailers, text messages, and bi-weekly phone calls, pop in the office face-to-face “hello’s” I FINALLY succeeded! We finally went on our first date to a lovely night at every women’s favorite place (drum roll please), a KINGS Game!! News alert… she’s not a huge fan of basketball though she kindly accompanied me. Then after a lovely date and a few more follow-up calls we got Married! Just kidding, she decided dating wasn’t for her for a while and pushed me aside for another month or two. As my heart was kicked and dragged through the mud, I started to play hard to get! Well, more so thinking that “maybe I should take my dad’s advice and give up on this one…” In my last effort to win Afton officially over… it worked! Little did I know giving a woman space was my best quality! She actually called me this time, and we’ve been inseparable ever since that day. A year and a half after, we have laughed together, loved, eaten, sold real estate together, and traveled, enjoyed each other’s company through it all. I remember telling her “you're going to love me one day!” and I was right!
Then came December 2018; there was a sense of “hmmmmm, maybe I’m ready for the next step?” So, I did what any other man would do; I went to Zale’s and bought a ring, then bought a sporty Santa suite/tie combo from Target and decided to propose at our Holiday Christmas party with Keller Williams. It was the perfect time and place since we met at work and have a lot of friends and “work family” who have watched our story unfold, as well as having our close family and friends were there with us to celebrate. October 12, 2019 we were married at the Old Firehouse in Old Sacramento with 150 of our closest friends and relatives. It’s been a great love story, friendship and partnership that I wouldn’t trade for the world.